Your love horoscope for 2011
Sarah Delamere Hurding looks ahead at your love life in 2011.
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Mars, your ruler, spices up sexual intimacy as always. Union of bodies, hearts and minds keeps things interesting.
Be realistic with Saturn putting the brakes on your self expression. Patience is needed to keep things sweet. Life is not always romantic and at the moment it is definitely not easy. But love lives on.
Spend precious time on each other and look at what is working and what is not. Appreciate what you have got and do not take it for granted. Get past any issues that are holding you back.
Work to make yourself understood or you may be torn between two feelings. Choose wisely and do not let go of a good thing: unless it really IS time to say goodbye.
Watch out for irrevocable disagreements. Damage could be done if you do not bend just a little. Did you rush into something? You’re not going to have much tolerance for confrontation, so steer clear of a row, unless you really have had enough.
Moving in broader circles will spice things up for both of you. Be even more independent to keep the interest up. Sex talk may get wearisome and the tricks that worked in the past may be losing their lustre. Just try a bit of peace and quiet; then see what comes up. A new approach will work wonders.
Decisions about the future will have to be made. You hate change, but life has some interesting surprises in store.
However hard you try, you may not be hitting the spot. Is it time to admit defeat, or try a different tack altogether?
Plenty of TLC should improve things. If it doesn’t; that’s IT! Move on. Never mind taking the moral higher ground. Besides what does that mean at this stage?
There may be huge agendas at play beneath the surface. It could be that whatever you say is not quite right. Prepare for simmering anger. But don’t play games.
Enjoy intense connections and prepare for things to get steamy indeed. It’s safe to be assertive, and feel secure; a good mix.
Suggest romantic interludes and enjoy that loved-up feeling. Venus urges you to share family responsibilities as a way of bonding and moving things along.
Look outwards and be all-inclusive to strengthen your closest love ties. Don’t scrimp or hold back. You will feel changeable. Trapped and constricted one day; committed and content the next.
Don’t make hasty moves or choices until things settle within. There’s a change at hand; transitions are not easy. Love is going to be tested.
The lineup of Mars, Jupiter and the Sun means that if commitments are shaky; this is when they will tumble. Guard what you treasure
It is important to say how you really feel. You normally avoid awkward moments. But one connection needs a confrontation to clear the air. Put your seat belt on and have it out.
Passion heats up and you will be glad you held onto that special someone. Even low key moments bring intense excitement.
You are changing for the better. It does not have to be the beginning of the end, but your lover must adjust as you evolve.
Tackle things head-on. Your expectations of what will happen play a significant part.
Do not restrict your happiness by repeating patterns from the past. Get past those demons. Don’t let routine or dull circumstances affect you.
Never mind the occasional lull; simply do something about it. It doesn’t mean you have to part company; work at it. Use your wit and sense of humour to keep things ticking over.
Great social connections will benefit both of you. Don’t be too independent. Remember to include your lover in what’s happening.
Your own needs and desires may at times put pressure on your relationship. But you do have to make it quite clear what you’re up for. Demanding as you are, you have a right to be heard.
Watch out for temptation on the work front. You may not be able to resist. Take care to honour commitments; or at least be seen to be doing so. If you play away, you may get caught.
Love for YOU and a healthy self respect will reel in love from the big wide world, and most importantly that special someone.
Ditch old insecurities and enjoy the social spin. Love’s magic WILL descend once again.
In relationships do not explain yourself or rationalize things too much. Watch out that moodiness, jealousy, and/or suspicion do not mar your romantic moments.
Tap into your sexy side and don’t let a bit of competition bother you. It may actually help things along.
Your issues, doubts and differences are likely to be heightened. It will be screamingly obvious that there is a whole lot of work to be done if you are to weather the storm and stay together.
Try to be consistent with your feelings and responses, or your lover will get highly confused. Ham-up the love vibes if you have to. Revamp your image and attitude for great sensual, romantic results.
You may have been overly secretive about your feelings. Get past buried resentments and frustrations. It’s important to bury the hatchet and move on; whether it be together or apart.
Take control and surprise your love with new moves and fantastic options. There may be a growing restlessness and clash of wills.
Friendship may turn into love without you being quite aware what’s happening.
Enjoy all your links, and never say never about what’s going down. Let love surprise you in weird ways.
Deep physical attractions are likely. You should be looking and feeling pretty good too; which all helps.
Do not let family or friends pull at your heart strings. Make time for each other and especially be on your guard who seek to mess up your happiness.
Steer clear of gossip and don’t believe any of it. You can be especially creative with your relationships at the moment.
Do reel in that someone you’ve had your eye on. But do expect a power struggle as you get used to each other.
There will be a destiny meeting and intense encounters; but don’t get caught on-the-hop. You will have to answer to yourself for your choices.
Do not lie about your feelings and remember that you DO have some control. Do not settle for less than what you deserve. If someone is shortchanging your emotions, or is simply too busy to include you; it may be time to look elsewhere.
Don’t ignore your feelings though. Your charisma and energies are on a high, so you can make a huge impression on the right person’s heart.
Take things deeper and you won’t be on your own for much longer. Love is worth the risk. Be courageous and make the adjustments that are required. There is no point going off in a strop.
Mars sparks up adventure and trips to unusual places with offbeat friends. Suspend belief a little and see if love surprises you. Just be open to events. Let life lead you to where you’re meant to be.
Offers flood in and you will have your work cut out. Just as well this hectic schedule also applies to your love life.
Don’t pass up an encounter with an exciting, work colleague. Do not get drawn into something tricky with someone unavailable though.
Mixing business and pleasure will come easy; but be extra careful of triangle situations. You don’t need things to get any more complicated.
Choose to lighten up over contentious issues. Nostalgia and reconnections get you in the mood for a different kind of love. Prepare for something new.
Make sure you keep things sweet on the home front. If you don’t live together don’t be unavailable. Stay open and don’t fret.
Venus serves you well. You will begin to feel more content. You are happy enough with your own company. But fate seems to have a different agenda. Expect the opposite of what you wish for.
A past love resurfaces to get you thinking again about what you hope for and dream of. Be realistic re love. Speak up and verbalize what you want and expect from your relationship. Go easy on your lover though. This is about YOU. Uranus is waking you up to aspects of yourself you have suppressed.
Don’t be surprised if your dark side surfaces. Your lover may actually appreciate a bit of danger, so express yourself warts and all.
Bizarre thoughts and feelings are likely to surface distracting you from your main relationship. Observe what’s happening, but don’t give it too much energy just yet. Seeds of change are taking root
You’re inclined to fall in love FAST! Be wary. That ‘in love with love’ feeling is likely to take over with even the slightest flirty moment. Enjoy yourself but don’t jump in too quick.
You will come up with all sorts of tricks to keep love interesting. But diversionary tactics won’t prevent the need for a BIG decision soon.
All aspects of life should be flying, and you will be busy indeed. Just make sure you don’t miss out on a significant love opportunity; as if!
You are likely to have that glint in your eye. Others are bound to notice and will be lining up around the block for a piece of you. Be careful if you are spoken for.
Wait for, or keep, the magical lover who brings security with a tinge of danger.
Have you been agreeing to things against your better judgment? Review your situation. No longer the ditherer; you are up-for-it, decisive and most of all SEXY.
Your inner peace and calm is a wonder to behold. You can be intense and sexy between the sheets; but emotionally, nothing is going to ruffle you.
A busy social life benefits your love life too. You are willing to take radical risks for a piece of the action.
Be careful that your ambitions do not interfere with mutual plans. Watch out for your lover’s expectations and communicate effectively. It is time to resolve tricky issues and be at peace.
Let go of emotional trauma and old patterns of behaviour or thinking that have been holding you back. Lighten up to attract a new lover and ditch the past.
It is time to get down to business as the interaction of Mars and Venus helps your love life no end. You’re irresistible. You are all-embracing and expansive, but inclined to make mountains out of molehills.
Try to be tolerant and forgiving and watch that insecurities do not mar your chances. There are intense connections to be made, so spark up and engage in the fray.
Try not to bother too much about where it’s all heading. Simply enjoy what’s there and remain realistic.
Do not focus on what you feel is missing from your life. Cast an objective eye over your situation. You will see it is not actually that bad. Accept where you are at and the rest will follow.
You may be asking yourself some BIG questions. Is that biological clock ticking? Ultimatums are NOT recommended. Accept the state of play and appreciate the present.
Try not to give negative thoughts too much energy and let frustrations subside. Venus ups your appeal and you will be attracting all sorts of offers.
Hopefully you will not be too tempted if you are happy with your current love. If you’re not content, free yourself up.
You are delectable, irresistible and won’t have to do much to attract interest. Don’t stray too far off track though.
Be careful not to take out your petulant moods on your lover.
Your sense of adventure may lead you astray; if you’re that way inclined. You will be desperate for some spontaneous fun and adventure. Oops!
Hold onto your treasured dreams and visions. Plan things together and see what you can do to make your best ideas tangible. Keep it real though.
You need lots of adventure and shenanigans to keep you entertained just now. Your spirit of independence is strong. Seek out good, clean fun; not infidelity.
Be patient with yourself and get past those complex emotions. There will be rewards if you keep your cool. Watch that your work load doesn’t compromise your love life.
If there are tricky issues, you haven’t yet resolved; don’t ignore them any longer. What are you afraid of; the truth perhaps? Face up, or feck off.
If the common ground between you is fast diminishing, you may need to kiss each other goodbye. Steer clear if you don’t want things to unravel completely.
Think carefully about the type of lover you wish to attract and/or keep. If you are specific, the universe WILL honour your request. But if you’re muddled, you can expect the confusion to continue a while longer
Romance could be quite unexpected and exotic, so remain up for it. Just make sure money rows or differences don’t mess things up.
Keep your secrets under wraps too. You can mix business and pleasure quite safely now.
Try to be experimental and less perfectionist. Go easy on you and yours though and do not be hasty with demands or ultimatums.
Honour the depth of your feelings truly, madly, deeply and love WILL grow. Don’t resist it. Do NOT sabotage a good thing by being anxious and demanding. Misunderstandings do not have to be a big deal.
The planets line up to boost your confidence, talents and skills of communication.
You may be tempted by an ex as you start to realize what you miss about him/her. Be true to your feelings. Live for the NOW and enjoy the moment.
If a relationship really is past its sell-by date, you should admit the truth. If not, renew your commitment wholeheartedly and get stuck in.
Unusual, off-beat options may be bewildering, but you won’t get anywhere unless you embrace life. New creative projects open you up and suddenly the world seems exciting.
With your sense of adventure sparked-up, you are more up-for-it and able to engage in the fray. Now you can achieve a level of intimacy which has evaded you for quite a while.
You will be looking and feeling much better. Love is on the up and you now have the tenacity to match your lover’s best moves. Just enjoy what you’ve got.
The lure of magical romance is strong. Be careful if you’re spoken for. A face in the crowd may make you wistful if your relationship is in a rut.
Make definite moves to keep love peaceful. A lighter, brighter approach will help things along. Keep your sense of humour buoyant and recent ructions can be sorted.
Make a special effort or your lover may feel neglected. There IS a lot to think about; just don’t shut down on love. Never mind the unease.
It IS okay to be independent and obnoxious occasionally. Love powers on regardless.
You may feel wonky about your commitments and unsure of your romantic status. Sometimes you need to step-back; just do not walk away.
Honour your usual feelings and you won’t go far wrong. But listen too much to inner doubts and weird flights of fancy and you may come unstuck.
Remain unconditional in your displays of affection and give love the benefit of the doubt. Work may take up a lot of energy, so be disciplined with the love stuff.
Design special moments with your lover. Work at romance and it will become deliciously playful. You CAN have the best of both worlds. Just don’t get too exhausted as you keep everyone happy.
Are you all set to be swept off your feet in more ways than just one? Say yes to interesting offers.
DO break free of a restrictive love thang that just isn’t the right thing long term. Be independent and hold back to define who you are before you recommit.
You are sensitized to negative thoughts and bad habits. Try to overlook the flaws, and appreciate what you have; it is all good. Balance yourself with as much sexy action as you can find.
Have you been working far too hard? All areas of life benefit from a re think. DO use your extra oomph to take love to a higher level.
Lots of flirty opportunities could get you into hot water if you’re not careful. Do try to avoid leading someone on, especially if they are vulnerable.
Allow your own insecurities to shift. There has been too much blocking your love life in the last while. BUT do not let past experiences or fears affect your ability to get up close and personal. Patterns do not have to repeat.
Planets are aligning to hook you up with someone more permanently. Use your intuition to guide you, and make some fancy moves to retrieve what really matters.
Tune-in to you and what you want. Powerful and commanding, people will take note. BUT, there is no point trying to control things. Let it be and relax.
Love will sort things out naturally, so don’t stress about the long-term. There is every reason to celebrate as you let it all hang out…
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