Dear Mary: My marriage was sexless for 37 years, now I’m my wife’s carer. I’m so angry

"After our last daughter was born my wife refused to have sex as she said it was impossible because it hurt. She also lost her loving feeling"© Getty Images/iStockphoto

Mary O'Conor

Having read many letters from men on your page regarding their wives losing interest in intimacy over the years, I feel I also need your advice.