Dear Mary: My girlfriend has a foot fetish, but it’s a turn-off for me

'Do you think I’m not thinking about her sexual needs or am I right to object to this based on my preference?'

Mary O'Conor

I’m a man in my 20s and have been dating a woman since the summer of 2019. A month before the first lockdown, we moved in together. We’ve been spending a lot of time, just the two of us, working from home and getting to know each other extremely well.