Dear Mary: I can't get this other man out of my mind
I've been married for 30 years to a man who thinks the world of me. I was quite young when we got married, and when I look back now, I realise I never really loved him, but was very fond of him and we got on really well. I would say I was relatively content and happy for most of that time, but we were always quite busy with both of us working and raising a family, and so didn't have much time to dwell on it. We have three adult children.