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Dating over 40: 5 reasons that online dating is a great way to find love


Finding love can happen at any time of life but dating in your 40s can be an entirely different experience to dating in your early 20s.

Regardless of what age you are, it’s hard to beat that frisson of excitement when you go on a first date or when you find yourself falling for someone new. However, it can sometimes seem harder to meet someone special once you’re in your 40s or older.

You’re no longer enjoying college nights out where most people are single, your circle of friends tends to be more established, and there may not be as many opportunities to get out and about due to work or family commitments.

That’s where online dating comes in. Online dating is now the norm for everyone from teens to the more mature dater. If you haven’t already tried it, here’s why it could be for you if you’re looking for love.

1. You have a better understanding of your needs

Once you reach your 40s and beyond, you have a better idea of what you want from a romantic connection. The chances are that you’ve been in a relationship before, know what you do and don’t want in a partner, and have a better understanding of your romantic needs.

There’s a lot to be said for experience! Knowing what you do/don’t want makes it easier to separate the wheat from the chaff and focus on finding genuine prospects. Online dating now makes it easier than ever to find the right person for you.

Depending on what site you use, you can adapt your search to filter your potential dates by age, interests or compatibility. It’s a simple way to narrow the field and focus your search on people who tick all the boxes.

2. You can see if you’re a match before you even meet

One of the advantages of online dating is that you can find out a lot about the other person from the comfort of your own couch. You can see whether you and your potential date are a match, share interests, or have the same sense of humour without having to commit to a physical date.

It’s also a good way to get back into the swing of things if you’re coming out of a long-term relationship or if your flirting skills are a bit rusty.

The power is in your hands. You can decide how quickly you want things to move, there’s no pressure and you can take the time to chat online and get to know each other before arranging a first date. Making a connection before you meet also increases the chances of you both hitting it off once you do meet up.


3. You’re not limited to your immediate circle of friends and their friends

If you’re over 40 and single, you’ll often find your friends will try and set you up with people they know. They mean well but the reality is that your friends are going to know less and less eligible singletons as they get older. Plus, you probably share a similar social circle to many of your close friends so it’s not like it was when you were in your 20s.

You could take a chance on whatever single friends they may have or you could actively search for your dream date. Online dating puts your romantic destiny back into your own hands and lets you reclaim control over your love life.

4.  Online dating fixes the odds in your favour

You might like the idea of meeting someone organically on a night out. Your eyes meet across a bar, you brush against each other and you realise that you’re both single and that you share common interests, passions and hobbies. We’re not saying it won’t happen but, statistically speaking, there are probably better ways to find Mr or Mrs Right.

Online dating lets you fix the odds in your favour. It’s like fishing in a lake that’s been stocked with your favourite type of fish. You can choose people in your own age range, look for someone who’s lifestyle and personality is compatible with yours, and even sign up to sites that offer matchmaker services to help you find a perfect match. 

5. You can choose a platform that reflects your values or needs 

There are all sorts of dating sites out there to suit all sorts of people. Some use advanced technology to help you meet your match. For instance, be2 is a site that matches compatible singles based on psychological and social criteria.

If you want to meet professionals and go-getters, EliteSingles is a premium site where 80pc of members hold a bachelor’s degree or higher. It even uses advanced matchmaking algorithms and personality tests to help you find the perfect mate.

Singles looking for a more mature dating environment can try Singles50, which caters for an over 50s community looking to find a real relationship. If your faith is central to your life, you’re probably looking for someone who shares your beliefs and values. Christian Mingle is one of the largest Christian dating sites in the world and it’s dedicated to Christian singles who want to find someone with the same faith and values.

Regardless of what you’re looking for, signing up to an online dating site can help you to find the perfect person and open you up to a whole new word of romantic possibilities.

Dating over 40 doesn’t need to be daunting. Whatever your preference is, pick the platform that suits you, get out there and reclaim your love life, over 40 and beyond!

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