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Dilemmas: Hurtful friend

I have a very old friend and we meet up about once a fortnight. The problem is that she always says something that makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently, she described how very happy my ex-husband seemed when she met him at a party, and last week she said she'd taken my side when another friend was attacking me.

I return home feeling wretched. I feel these remarks are too trivial to challenge, but I dread seeing her again, even though I've known her for years.