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Ask Allison: ‘My husband is cheating on me but I don’t care – as long as it doesn’t affect our family life. Am I in denial?’

Our resident therapist answers your queries about life and relationships

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People can respond in different ways when they discover that their partner has been cheating

People can respond in different ways when they discover that their partner has been cheating

People can respond in different ways when they discover that their partner has been cheating

I just found out that my husband has been cheating on me. We have been married for 15 years and have two children in primary school. I am writing to you as I want to pretend it never happened and stay in the marriage. We haven’t had sex in about four years. I don’t find him that attractive anymore but the marriage works in every other way. As long as it doesn’t interfere with our day-to-day life, I am ok with it. He doesn’t know that I know, but I saw a message on his iPad. My intention is to just carry on as normal. Am I totally in denial or is this something you have seen before?


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