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Sunday 21 January 2018

Tell-tale signs of child grooming for sex abuse being missed

Wesley Johnson

Tell-tale signs of child sexual grooming are being overlooked, a leading charity warned today.

Barnardo's said just two in five parents believed children were being sexually exploited where they live, despite the prevalence of the problem.

It urged parents, professionals and young people to be aware of the signs, which can include children going missing for long periods, regularly returning home late, appearing with unexpected gifts or associating with older teenagers or adults.

Anne Marie Carrie, the charity's chief executive, said: "This is a horrific and pernicious crime that everybody needs to be alive to.

"Vulnerable defenceless girls and boys, who crave love and attention, are groomed then abused in the most callous and calculated way, leaving them deeply traumatised and scarred for life.

"Yet victims continue to go unidentified as tell-tale signs are overlooked. I want mothers, fathers, professionals and young people to have the confidence in spotting these signs. The earlier abuse is identified, the earlier we can stop it."

The poll of more than 1,100 parents in the UK also found less than half of parents were able to spot the more subtle signs of children being exploited, such as regularly returning home late (43%).

One in four fathers said they do not feel confident that they would spot whether the relationships their child has are dangerous, compared with one in six mothers.

A report by the Child Exploitation and Online Protection Centre (Ceop) in June found that key agencies involved in child protection have failed to put in place "basic processes" to stop sexual abuse.

There were 2,379 offenders recorded since the start of 2008, mostly men aged 18 to 24, the study found.

Victims are cut off from their normal support networks in the grooming process, are left "disorientated" and are emotionally manipulated as part of the abuse, Ceop said.

:: ComRes interviewed 1,147 GB parents online between August 3 and 7 2011.

Andrew Flanagan, chief executive of the NSPCC, said: "Every year thousands of children suffer horrendous experiences after being targeted by sex offenders who are adept at conniving a way into their lives.

"Many of these children are too young to help themselves, others are deceived by cunning manipulation.

"We know that some children who suffer this kind of abuse are too terrified to speak out; therefore it is absolutely vital that everyone takes responsibility for their protection - not just the professionals in the field who are often under extreme pressure.

"By taking swift action you could help save a child from a miserable existence that often has repercussions lasting well into adult life.

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