Tuesday 20 November 2018

'We can’t let tradition become extinct' - parents' anger at decision to scrap First Holy Communion date for 'any Mass day'

  • Parents claim they were not given a date for communion next year but told to come on "any Mass day"
  • A petition has been launched to save the tradition
  • Some are in favour of removing set date to help reduce costs
Communion. Stock image
Communion. Stock image

Rachel Farrell

Parents have launched a petition against a decision to allow children to make their holy communion "on any Mass day in May or June", rather than holding it on a specific date.

The community of Askea in Co Carlow created the petition in hopes of "saving the tradition” of a child’s first communion.

Parents of children making their communion this year say that they were told at a meeting last week that children at Askea National School, Tinryland National School and the local Gaelscoil could make their communion on “any day” when Mass is being held in May or June.

But parents are arguing that they don’t want the tradition of the day to die down and vowed to protest outside Mass on Sunday October 7 if they don’t hear a response from the parish officials.

One local parent, Naomi Cahill, said that many children were upset by the decision as they were looking forward to the day.

"We went to the meeting and asked for the communion date, and the priest said your child can make communion any day in May or June. Everyone was devastated,” Naomi told Independent.ie.

Naomi said that while the families behind the petition understand the increasing costs behind communion days, they don’t want to take the day away from their children.

“They can’t get rid of our tradition. They said because of the tradition of people going out in big dresses, they don’t want others to feel bad who can’t afford it, which we totally understand, but it’s only as costly as you make it. 

“Children want to make their communion with their classmates and have the excitement of practicing together. Our children want to take the creed for themselves with their head held high and with their friends, offering gifts and singing with the choir.

“No-one is saying you have to wear a dress, but they’re going to a Catholic school. My mother was reared that way, my granny was reared that way.”

She added that other parents didn’t want it to set precedent for other traditions in the future. 

"We’re afraid of what it holds for Irish traditions in the future, we don’t want it to become extinct.

“We always bring all different cultures into the school, but we have to stand and do something so this one doesn’t die out.”

Other local residents praised the decision to remove the set date for communion, saying that it would remove the pressures of spending money on communion days and focus on the sacrament instead.

“Great idea, less expenses for family. Religion and state schools should be separated and if families want to celebrate they can do so in their own time- well done,” one listener told KCLR96 FM.

“I think it’s a great idea, well done to those schools. They shouldn’t be preparing in school either, religion is a personal thing. I don’t think the idea came from schools but rather from the parish,” another parent said.

The local parish priest was unable to speak to KCLR96 FM this morning but said he would speak with the parents first. 

Independent.ie has contacted the parish priest for comment.

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