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Monday 14 October 2019

Husband-to-be and children lead mourners for tragic Ruth

The coffin of Ruth Maguire at St Vincent de Paul Church, Ligoniel, Belfast, as her husband-to be and children follow. Photo: PA
The coffin of Ruth Maguire at St Vincent de Paul Church, Ligoniel, Belfast, as her husband-to be and children follow. Photo: PA

Aoife Moore

A bride-to-be who died on a night out with friends last week has been laid to rest.

Ruth Maguire, a 30-year-old health assistant who was due to marry her partner in August, was buried in her wedding dress.

The alarm was raised last Saturday when Ms Maguire went missing on her friend's hen night in Carlingford, Co Louth, sparking a major search, before her body was found in the nearby lough.

Friends described her death as a tragic accident.

Ms Maguire's coffin, covered in flowers, was followed by her partner Jim and three children, Tyler, Lydia and Oliver, who were joined by hundreds of tearful mourners on their way into Mass at St Vincent de Paul Church in Ligoniel, north Belfast, yesterday.

A number of bouquets were carried by members of the RNLI, while a bouquet that spelt out "friend" was in the hearse.

Ruth Maguire's friends gather on the harbour at Carlingford, Co Louth to search for her
Ruth Maguire's friends gather on the harbour at Carlingford, Co Louth to search for her

A guard of honour of children and adults from Ms Maguire's GAA club, Bryansford GAC in Newcastle, where she volunteered as a coach, stood outside the church.

Mourners heard Ms Maguire, originally from Belfast, worked at Daisy Hill Hospital in Newry and, although the baby of the family, was "the boss" who looked out for her sisters and brothers.

The priest, Father Darach Mac Giolla Cathain, told mourners Ms Maguire dedicated her life to others, through her job as a carer, coaching sport and Irish dancing. "Ruth was slow to take offence and quick to forgive, she realised that life is too short, he said.

"Family was at the heart of Ruth's life, and Ruth and Jim were due to receive the sacrament of marriage this year. My prayer is that the grace you were due to receive that day will come to you today, Jim, and sustain you in the future."

"May she meet you Jim in God's kingdom, dressed in dazzling white," the priest added. Speaking to her three children, he said: "Don't you ever think that because you're wee your prayers aren't powerful. God listens to your prayers so carefully, you remember that.

"Remember your mummy loved you so very much, and your prayers will help you on life's journey. She was so proud of you, and you'll have so many people around you to help you. Remember there is always hope, always faith, always love."

A card made by her son for Mother's Day next week has taken pride of place in their home.

Friends have described Ms Maguire as "the most loving, hard-working and caring mother to her three beautiful children" who, along with her partner, "worked tirelessly to give their children the best they possibly could in life".

She was buried at Carnmoney Cemetery.

Sunday Independent

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