'Lord of Rings' ruined our lives, says family
Published 19/11/2012 | 05:00
THE GRANDSON of novelist JRR Tolkien has disclosed how the 'Lord of the Rings' films tore his family apart and provoked a feud with his father.
Simon Tolkien (53) admitted for the first time how the immense popularity of Peter Jackson's Hollywood adaptations damaged his family in what was akin to being "hit by a juggernaut".
The former barrister, now himself a successful novelist, said he began to lose "sight" of his identity and became "suffocated" by being known as "JRR Tolkien's grandson".
The problems also provoked an "incredibly, dreadfully painful" feud with his father, Christopher, with the falling out becoming so bad that the pair didn't speak for "a while".
His son was also the victim of bullying at school. He wrote in a Sunday newspaper: "Maybe some people assumed it was about money ... I don't know.
"In hindsight, I think all of my anger was being driven by this feeling that I was trapped. All I was ever going to be was the grandson of a very famous writer. That was the sum total of my achievements."
He said he managed to turn his life around thanks, in part, to his 50-year-old American-born wife, Tracy, with whom he now lives in California.
While his grandfather died in 1973, aged 81, his 87-year-old father is still alive and the pair have since "sorted out all our differences".
He dedicated his latest book to his father, adding: "I guess I just feel lucky that I got the chance to put things right with my dad.
"But I'm grateful that he took the time to read my books and tell me that he liked them. That made me feel very fulfilled."
He said that "the arrival of a Tolkien blockbuster no longer fills me with the trepidation it once did. I won't be getting another sideswipe from the juggernaut".
His wife, whom he met at Oxford University 30 years ago, said it was traumatic watching her husband "shrinking away".
She said: "Sure, he knows he's never going to be as famous as his grandfather, or sell as many books, but at least he feels he's achieved something on his own terms. It's just so good to see Simon in a much better place." (© Daily Telegraph, London)