What the readers say
It sounds as if this guy is being pretty honest with you -- if he wasn't interested, he probably would've run a mile when you confronted him, instead of explaining himself. Give him a little while longer, then sit down and tell him that you're ready to commit. If he still wants to use up his membership after that, then I don't think he's serious about you. You don't have to date other people -- just do your own thing for a bit.
Paul, Co Meath
So if he'd taken out a two-year membership, would you be expected to tag along until he decides to stop playing the field? Get back online and find yourself someone who won't mess you around!
Allison, Co Dublin