How celebrities make a marriage work - even when it's all over
Leaking sensational details to celebrity websites has become a crucial tactic in high-profile divorce cases to win custody rights and safeguard careers
Published 25/09/2016 | 02:30
Celebrity marriages have not had the best of times: Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner, Johnny Depp and Amber Heard, Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale.
Middle-aged, male A-list stars are taking a beating. The situation has become so dire that the celebrity news channel E! Online is predicting the "End of an Era for Celebrity Idol Worship".
But nothing quite prepared the celebrity world for the totalling of Brangelina.
From alimony to palimony to the rise of the pay-as-you-go marriage (the wage-earning party to pay into a separation fund throughout the length of the marriage so there are no surprises when or if the marriage eventually ends), Hollywood couples have long been pioneers when it comes to marital innovation. But the end of Brad Pitt/Angelina Jolie has left a nuclear pall over Hollywood-land, with reports of the FBI looking into "an incident" on a flight the Pitt-Jolie family took on September 14.
Pitt was reportedly "lawyering up" after the FBI announced the agency "is continuing to gather facts and will evaluate whether an investigation at the federal level will be pursued".
"This one is going to end with both of them having their images bruised," predicts Allison Hope Weiner, a lawyer and journalist who has covered Hollywood for more than 15 years.
What is clear is that in this confrontation nothing is left to chance and the leaks that appear in the media - usually via celebrity website TMZ's host Harvey Levin - are deliberate.
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"They know that if they can get to Harvey first, and he publishes first, they can set the tone because the rest of the media consider TMZ a first-party source," says one talent manager familiar with the frontlines of Hollywood scandal. "Angelina needs some kind of leverage to go for full custody for the kids.
"If you're wise enough you can see that websites like TMZ granulate - serialise - everything because it creates entertainment product for them to carry it. They're making money off it."
It's no mystery, then, that barely a week into the split, the children are already the focus of the battle. On Thursday, the LA Times received a leak that Pitt was subject to the FBI investigation over the private plane trip back from France last week.
As TMZ reported: "Sources familiar with the situation tell us, Brad, Angelina and their kids were on a flight last Wednesday when he allegedly got wasted on the private jet. He allegedly went wild, screaming and getting physical with the kids."
The website continued: "We're told the plane landed at an airport around 8pm, and witnesses say Pitt continued his rant on the tarmac, and even tried leaving in one of the fuel trucks."
In her divorce filing, Jolie listed the couple's date of separation as the following day, September 15, and it was later confirmed Pitt is now under investigation for child abuse by the LA county department of children and family services.
Though LA celebrity divorce lawyers routinely deny leaking to TMZ - and blame court clerks for those leaks - both anti-Pitt items suggest that Jolie's publicists and lawyers are setting the pace.
"How do you think the media find out that a parent is being investigated for not properly caring for a child?" says Weiner. "In many instances, the existence of an investigation is leaked to the press."
By Friday, Pitt was fighting back, reportedly enlisting the help of attorney Lance Spiegel, who has worked with celebrities such as Charlie Sheen and Michael Jackson.
One "source" told People magazine: "He was appealing to her to do this quietly - not to save the marriage but to consider the well-being of the children - and it was ignored. He is just wrecked by this.
"He was willing to do anything, change any habit, change any lifestyle, to do what had to be done to make this work," adds the source. "And by 'make this work' that means doing what has to be done to make even a split one that is amicable and in the best interests of the children."
Jolie's demands are already clear: The actress (41), has asked for physical custody of the children and is requesting that Pitt be granted visiting rights, while Pitt wants shared custody, sources have said.
Weiner may think this divorce will end "with both of them having their images bruised" - but the PR battle over both stars' parenting skills is well under way.
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"It's managed so the client looks like a loving and caring parent. In some cases, nannies are instructed to walk in the back so parents can be photographed with their children and look as if they have no professional help with parenting.
"Moreover, paparazzi are informed when to catch parents out at the park with their children, providing an opportunity for the star to be photographed 'spending quality time' with his or her child." Could a celebrity divorce ever be harnessed to engineer a career lift? When Gwen Stefani divorced British rocker Gavin Rossdale for allegedly cheating with the nanny Stefani came swinging back with a new relationship (Blake Shelton), a hit album, This is What Truth Feels Like, and a TV show, The Voice.