Betrayal -- and a way to forgive
Sir -- With regard to Patricia Redlich (Sunday Independent, July 25, 2010) and a letter from a woman whose husband is dying but cannot forgive him for past hurts, I would like to recommend a booklet by Linda Schubert called Miracle Hour which can be got in Veritas. There is prayer to help you forgive all people in your life who have hurt you.
Although she may find it hard to let go of the anger and hurt, the very act of saying the prayer begins a healing process. Eventually she will be able to forgive. I hope this helps, as my heart goes out to her.