Martina Devlin: Law not only failing fathers, it's failing their children too
Published 26/08/2010 | 05:00
'IT'S a hamster wheel of misery -- a game of control over me. Why is she allowed to sabotage my attempts to be a loving dad? Why is she able to use my children as a weapon to beat me with?"
That's how one father portrays the war of attrition with his ex as he struggles to maintain a bond with his family.
Of all the subjects I have tackled, the topic that precipitated the most heartfelt emails -- an outpouring of cries in the dark -- was the way our society allows separated fathers to be isolated from their children.