Does your love meet the gold standard?
I recently spent a few hours in the company of two couples who were in love. None of those involved were in their first 'big' relationships. Nor were they in the first flush of youth.
One pair was heterosexual and unmarried. The other gay and married. They were easy and enjoyable company. They are examples of the lucky 10pc.
This goes back to a Late Late Show years ago when a Jesuit priest, Fr Feargal O'Connor, was talking about marriage.