Wednesday 1 October 2014

Meet our 21st century mums...

Last month, an online group of mums met in person for the first time. Today, four of these women share their stories of motherhood so far. By Andrea Smith

Emma Leahy and her son AJ, six months. Photo by Ronan Lang
Niamh Hughes and her son Hector, pictured in their Carrick on Shannon home. Photo by Brian Farrell
Jane Edgeworth with her baby Priya. Photo: Martin Maher

Last month, Health and Living was delighted to spend time with a very special group of mums, who met online as they were all due their babies in August 2013.

We were there as 26 of the 48 mums in the group met up in person for the first time at the Maldron Hotel in Portlaoise, having supported each other virtually through their pregnancies, labour and childbirth.

From this group, we will be following four of the mums more closely on their journey over the next six months.

Today we introduce our four mothers, Kelda, Niamh, Jane and Emma, and catch up with their stories to date, and over the coming months we will explore their babies' progress.

We will also discuss their opinions on various aspects of raising a child, including nutrition, education, discipline and childcare, as well as examining the challenges involved for the women in raising their gorgeous new babies.

'All I've ever wanted is to be a mammy'

Emma and AJ Leahy

Emma Leahy (31) is married to chef Dan Leahy and they live in Blessington, Co Wicklow. They have two children, Hannah (3), and AJ (six months), and Dan also has a son Shane (17). The Dubliner is a stay-at-home mum.

"I met Dan when I was working in an Irish pub in Essen, Germany, and I moved in with him after our first date. We lived in Edinburgh for two years and moved home when my mum, Bernie McKnight, was diagnosed with cancer. Dan and I got married in August 2008 and my mum passed away in April 2009. I found her passing very difficult and suffered with anxiety for a long time, and still have moments where it can creep back up.

"We started trying for a baby in November 2009, and found out we were pregnant a month later. We welcomed Hannah into our lives in August 2010. From the moment I held her, I knew that all I wanted to be was a 'mammy'. Sad it may be, to be defined as 'mum', but if that's all that this life has to offer me, I am more than happy.

"I am a stay-at-home mum for now, and am fully embracing my days of tea parties and playdough. Time is something that wasn't afforded to my own mum, so I'm trying my best to make the most of mine.

"After our daughter's first birthday, we decided to start trying to conceive again, but after six months of nothing happening, I started small things like changing my diet, taking supplements, and, of course, worrying that something was wrong.


"After almost 12 months, we finally got our good news, but I had this niggling feeling that there was something different this time.

"At 11 weeks, I miscarried, and while we were heartbroken, we both took a little time out to be sad and then decided to start trying again. And at the beginning of December we found out we were pregnant again.

"I suffered badly with 'all-day sickness' for the first 16 weeks, along with tiredness. I also had a few weeks of sciatic pain, but that passed by five months.

"So I found I was more tired, but also far more able to cope than I had imagined, and luckily both Hannah and AJ seem to thrive on routine.

"I have loved watching the bond form between brother and sister. You can see already they are both mad about each other – long may it last! AJ is the happiest little boy. A super-smiley, very chilled out and relaxed little man. At the moment he is cursed with teething, but he still smiles through the pain.

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