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Monday 27 March 2017

Balance is needed on farm break-ups

Selling the land as part of a legal family settlement should be avoided if possible

John Shirley

A friend of mine worries a lot about his farm. "John", he used to say, "you walk up that wedding aisle with 100ac and you come back down with 50."

But walk up and down the aisle he did -- eventually. Nowadays, 30-odd years after his own wedding, his big concern is about the buckos making shapes around his daughter, who is in line to take over the family farm. If he had his way he would like to have the Irish divorce referendum re-run and the outcome reversed next time around. He is in favour of a pre-nuptial agreement if it protects the farm.

His concern is shared by practically every land and property owner in the country. But, sadly, marriage breakdown happens. Having to sell a farm that has been in the family for generations in order to fund a court divorce or separation settlement is devastating. I have seen elderly couples who toiled on the family farm all their lives. They transferred the farm to a son as a marriage settlement, thinking they were doing the right thing. After a few years the new daughter- in-law upped and left with every intention of taking some of the farm with her.

I know that the faults in marriage breakdowns are rarely all on one side and the person marrying in has rights too. But should they have a right to break up a farm that may have been in a family for generations after only a short stay?

That farm represents the earning capacity of the farming son or daughter. It is akin to the professional qualification of a plumber, a doctor or an accountant or the job security of a civil or public servant. If one of these professionals is involved in a separation agreement, their professional qualification is not confiscated. Equally, a civil servant does not lose the right of the job and guaranteed pension on a marriage break-up.

A similar balance should be applied when the separation divvy-up is taking place after a farm marriage split. Assess the earning capacity of the farm; assess the input to the farm from the departing spouse; assess the independent income of the parting spouse, which is often a lot higher than the farm income. Then make a court settlement. That is assuming the case cannot be settled outside the court.

Some of the more recent court judgements to parties in marriage separations/divorces indicate that the balance may be swinging slightly back towards the farmer. Maybe in the future less farms will be broken up because of marriage breakdowns. Uniquely, in Ireland pre-nuptial agreements are not legally enforceable, but I am told that some judges are taking note of pre-nuptial documents when making their decisions. Maybe my friend mentioned at the start of the article can breathe a little easier.

It has been suggested that the absence of legal standing for pre-nuptial agreements was a sop to the Catholic Church when divorce legislation was introduced, since giving credence to such deals would have been seen to further undermine the institution of marriage.


In today's Ireland the waters are being further muddied by the increasing number of couples living together, having families and not bothering with any marriage contract. Nice one if you can get away with it, but it is not in the long-term interests of a stable society.

I suppose I am old-fashioned in that I believe that society's best bet is to continue with the family units and that stronger efforts should be made to keep marriages intact.

I recall discussing this issue a long time ago with an elderly neighbour. His take on it was that when he got married he was so fond of his new young wife "that he could eat her". After some years he said he wished he had eaten her. But they settled down to a satisfactory equilibrium that could almost be described as living happily ever after.

Farm marriages, like all marriages, have to be worked on. There is no guarantee that things will be any better the next time around with a new partner.

I hope you all have a happy and healthy 2010.

Irish Independent